ARIES: Keep Focused on Your Vision Until It Manifests

It’s the last week in Aries, a time of newness and changes. Of course, every time you make a major change, there is always some upheaval which takes major coordination. If it is the right change though, after a few bumps and hiccups, the flow begins again with gusto and even better. Patience is the virtue always needed when changes are in progress, often it looks worse now than it did the old way, but then freshness, improvements begin to appear. 

Be Ready for Rejection if Catalyst for Change

Be prepared if you are someone that is a catalyst for change, fears abound for those around you many times.  Keep focused on your vision, be ready for rejection and do not retreat.  Especially if your vision came beyond your normal thinking, from wisdom seemingly outside of you, do not give up.  You have the entire astrological year to manifest, massage, find out the detours, get up and back on the road. 

How Can the Message Be Beauty?

How can the message for the year be beauty when there is so much upheaval going on in the world right now? Aries started off with a bang literally with the Iceland volcano erupting, and now as Aries ends, another eruption occurred spewing so much ash in the air that flights have been cancelled all over Europe.  Flights that started out in Los Angeles had to turn around.  In Mexico there was a 7.2 earthquake. The statistics are low on deaths, but not on destruction of businesses, property and the like. And another huge earthquake in China, with over 1300 dying and who knows how many lost.  And these are just physical disasters, upheaval. Just in on the news, a 50 foot sinkhole in California just opened up, sucking a parked car into its depth. This is all part of the progression to when a new pole star will be seen from the Southern Hemisphere, not the Northern.

Disasters are Natural Part of Life’s Journey

Disaster is one of the 36 different scenarios we all go through in our progression through humanity. Amazing, but disasters help us actualize our potential. Indeed some are victims which perish, others are villains that loot, rob, take advantage. But there are still others that their heart opens, they are called to help. These are our heroes and heroines, the role that our heart calls us to take. 

We are presented with one disaster, either physical or in heart wrenching relationship dramas, one after another, until we finally step up and become our own heroine, not someone having to save us, and we help as many others as we can along our journey. And we all come a bit closer to embracing death, the other side of duality.  Coming to terms, readying ourselves for death, for the most part catapults people into their intuitive, spiritual self.

Rebuild After the Disaster

After a disaster, whether it’s a relationship devastation or physical destruction, we have a chance to rebuild and create beauty.  Most often the path to becoming a better person, to opening up one’s spiritual nature, begins with a crisis or disaster. I would say 98% of the people that originally went into counseling, was during a major crisis in their lives. They did not go because they were in top shape and just wanted to improve themselves.  Luckily, after people handle their crisis, most would continue on the spiritual, more heartfelt path that opened for them.  Almost always, to some degree or another, becoming more humble, letting go of arrogance, was a major lesson for each.  Now they could rebuild their life with beauty…so I’m saying, there is tremendous opportunity that comes with disasters and crisis.

Horrible Manmade Destruction in 1945

You are aware of the Hiroshima bombing that occurred in 1945 and its destruction. Now, in 2010 Hiroshima is truly one of the most beautiful cities in Asia, which is saying a lot, as there are countless beautiful cities there.

United States in Political and Economic Upheaval

The United States is in political and economic upheaval. Our form of government became one of the elite, congress and senators voting on health care, social security or any issue that they exempted themselves from. We will never have a just political system until it is an inclusive one.  Every politician or leader must lead by passing laws that they would want for themselves, their families, children and their parents or grandparents. Until then, the government will continue to be torn apart, dismantled right in front of our very eyes.     

Piscean Form of Government Being Destroyed

That’s the old Piscean form of government; yes, it is being destroyed without a doubt.  We are now in the Aquarian age, it is a time of specialists.  And yes, people are speaking up, but do know within the Tea Party movement, any movement, there are those that are pure and of service and those that are not.  That is up to us to discern.  Also, these same idealistic people will have to go through their own learning lessons, especially about power, money and fame.

Power and Relationships

Remember all the bright, new green people going to Washington, go with their own weaknesses and addictions. In other words, each person has a price, lobbyists just find the weakness; whether it be sex, drugs, alcohol, family, money, fame or power.  During the patriarch reign, power was the easiest to lure someone in.  And most of those that sold out for power had awful relationships.

Arrogance Being Destroyed

If you understand the big picture, that indeed the old, the patriarch, the arrogance is in process of being destroyed, just maybe you can get excited.  The real issue is you, your family and your work.  What do you do in such chaos? There are many answers, but they all include getting involved.  Staying on the sidelines is not it, and even when you do get involved, there is a progression, a learning curve.

Let The Cosmos Guide You

Travel with Mother Earth around the Sun and experience newness.  Learn to embrace, utilize the cosmic energies, so you can open your own intuition, be led by your own higher self that resides outside of this physical realm.

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ARIES: Moon Goddess-Sugar Moon brings a new dawn

ARIES: Astrology Forecast 2010

Aries Relationship Tips 2010

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LEO:

Moon Goddess’s-August Moon

Goddess exclaims her New Moon is as important as her Full Moon, if not more so, as we shift toward a matriarch guided era. Her New Moon time occurs when she is positioned in such a way she receives directly from the Sun who fully illuminates her with his sun rays. At this time, she obtains directly without being filtered through Mother Earth’s energies. The Moon Goddess is right in between Mother Earth and the Sun.

What’s Happening with the Sun?

If we prepare and tune in to the Moon Goddess’s New Moon time, we could ourselves collect a sense of what is happening with the Sun. Our consciousness would then have the opportunity to expand beyond what is happening solely as Mother Earth’s inhabitants.

Magnetic Field Strength Becoming Higher

We could begin to grasp what is happening to Mother Earth in relation to the Sun, as she strives to adapt. The new energies that the Sun is passing through affect all of the planets that revolve around the Sun as well, not just Mother Earth. Scientists tell us that the magnetic field strength is becoming higher in frequency for all the planets in our solar system.

Mother Earth’s Turn for Pole Shift Soon

When Jupiter came out behind the Sun this time on its trek around the Sun some of its rings were gone. Uranus and Neptune have already had their poles shift as discovered by the Voyager Space Probe. It will soon be Mother Earth’s turn.

Moon Goddess Becoming Brighter

By the way, have you noticed that the light coming from the Moon Goddess is much brighter radiating a higher magnetic frequency? As the Moon Goddess stimulates more our emotions and intuition, our inner senses are moving more toward the surface, not hidden inside. Our auras are becoming more luminous like the Moon.

Moon Goddess Growing an Atmosphere

Besides becoming more brilliant, the Moon Goddess is growing an atmosphere. Imagine, she now has more than a 3,000 miles deep layer of atmosphere that was not there before. It’s the same with Mother Earth, her atmosphere in the upper levels, not related to any kind of global warming, is beginning to show up.

It’s Not Just the Food, It’s the Air

What about you? Are you growing in size? What was once our standard for weight and size is rapidly changing. And yes, as the Moon rouses our emotions, we may reach for more food to ground us, to help us find an even keel. However, more of our growth is due to the energies pouring down on us from the Sun’s journey through the cosmos. You could say the air we breathe in the atmosphere is causing us to expand.

Moon Goddess Holds Major Key

Awakening our consciousness to being solar system inhabitants, not just residents of Mother Earth, allows us to embrace all this newness. The Moon Goddess holds a major key for this unfolding of our consciousness due to the stimulation of our emotions and intuition. Until you begin to feel the Moon Goddess’s New Moon time, be sure and look up the date and time. After awhile you’ll know as you will begin to feel the gravitational pull on your psyche.

New Moon Time August 2010

In August, the Moon Goddess’s Lightning New Moon is August 9, 2010 at 8:08 pm, PDT.

Three Days to Prepare

Begin three days ahead on August 6, to prepare first your physical body to receive. Two days ahead on August 7, make ready your emotions, swerving away from any emotional conflict or relationship dramas. One day before on August 8, put your mind in order, become inspired. And then treat the New Moon just like the Full Moon, be in silence as much as possible and intuitively connect. Your intuition is a wisdom that goes beyond logic, neither in the physical realm nor bound by distance.

Moon Beams Different Than Last Month

Then look for the Moon Goddess’s crescent moon to appear in the sky. The Moon Goddess may look the same to you, but the moon beams she is emitting are different than last month. That’s why each month the Moon Goddess has a new name, this month it is the Lightning Moon.

Don’t Take Moon Goddess for Granted

Each and every month the Moon Goddess receives illumination from the Sun from where he is now in his travels. You do not want to take the Moon Goddess for granted; she’s always fueling our feelings with newness.

Outer and Inner Senses Receive at Full Moon

On the Full Moon, once again Mother Earth, the Moon Goddess and the Sun are lined up with each other but the Moon Goddess is on the other side of Mother Earth. As the Moon Goddess is fully illuminated in a way that you can perceive through your outer senses, you don’t have to rely only on your inner senses like at the New Moon. Your physical body and mind, which are directed by your outer senses, have the same chance to receive as your inner senses leading you to your emotions and intuition.

Full Moon Time Produces Tug on Your Psyche

However, if you indeed did embrace the Moon Goddess’s New Moon time, you’ve had two weeks to get accustomed to these new energies coming from the Sun. You can now be in service to those that are just now receiving these energies as the direct alignment of the Moon Goddess, Mother Earth and the Sun emits most powerful energies to all of us, causing a tug on our psyche. You are needed as some people really go out of control now, becoming totally overwhelmed.

Moon Goddess’s August Full Moon Time

The Moon Goddess’s Full Moon occurs August 24, 2010 at 10:05 am, PDT.

Don’t Become Lax

Just because we now are treating the Moon Goddess’s New Moon time as important as the Full Moon time, does not mean we become lax in receiving the Full Moon energies or take the time to consciously integrate them.

Three Days Integration

As we just discussed how to prepare for the New Moon and it is the same for the Full Moon, let’s discuss the integration which is the same for both New and Full. On the first day after the Full Moon on August 25, you strive for clarity, like “What was all that about?” The second day afterward on August 26, you add your acceptance, your emotional zest to what you received. Then on the third day afterward on August 27, you begin to implement into your life what you received. You have two weeks to fully integrate and to serve others. While the Moon Goddess’s illumination fades, step up and radiate your light.

LEO: Characteristics of Leo

LEO: Forecast for Leo 2010

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 MOTHER EARTH:

How Mother Earth Evolves and Balances Herself

There are two predominant energies, a duality if you like, that Mother Earth embodies. It’s quite possible they are the same two energies that comprise our solar system, but we’re a long way from confirming that. As Mother Earth’s inhabitants, it’s the same two energies that compromise us also. These two energies are Will and Love.

Will is Our Strength

Will is our strength, our power, which stimulates our mind and our physical bodies. Differences, logic, facts and physical strength all belong to the realm of Will and are expressed through our outer senses. This is our masculine side, the left brain side of each of us, no matter what gender body we inhabit.

Love is Our Sensitivity

Love is our sensitivity, our feelings, our intuition and stimulates our emotional and our spiritual natures. Similarities, connecting, emotional expression and the desire to serve all belong to the realm of Love and are expressed more through our inner senses. This is the feminine aspect, the right brain part of each of us, without regard to the gender body we inhabit.

Mother Earth’s Quest

Mother Earth’s quest is to balance these two energies, Will and Love. Her method is to swing back and forth from one to the other. Will produces patriarch civilizations and Love gives birth to matriarch governed eras.

Out-breath of Will

Here’s how it works. First is an out-breath of Will, which brings into manifestation many distinct, separate parts of Mother Earth’s plan at her level of consciousness and evolution. During Mother Earth’s last out-breath of Will, different races with their own languages, religions and cultures were born in different locations. These manifestations or different aspects were to act as a type of research laboratory, imbuing in them different characteristics. In their separate locations, you could say purity could be observed and preserved, without any outside contamination. The masculine side was activated more, as survival was key, strength and brawn was most important. First the physical body was stimulated more and then the mind. Indeed this Will out-breath period was patriarchal or male dominated and governed.

In-breath of Love

Once Mother Earth tests out all her theories in separate locations with many different species and cultures, then Mother Earth begins her in-breath, swinging to the other side of the pendulum, to Love. While Will’s task was to manifest differences, Love connects through similarities. Now all the different species, religions and cultures are viewed first from the viewpoint of what were the similarities that were discovered that would further aid Mother Earth’s evolution. For example: In every religion no matter where or what language used as a method of expression, they all came to the same conclusion. Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You was found to be a major tenant of each.

Time of Separation Over

The time of separation is over. It’s a time of connecting, of discovering within each what is similar. The in-breath is actually shorter in duration, as what we need to bring together is already manifested. The different cultures can be seen and examined. This period is matriarch governed as the skills of connecting, emotional expression, and telepathy are more needed than strength and power.

Inclusiveness – Balance

Once Mother Earth has brought all these separate parts of her together, then there is a period of inclusiveness, of balance. Neither Will male nor Love female is in the lead, the best of both are brought together. Mother Earth’s consciousness as well as ours is greatly expanded. The worst or the extremes of each that do not forward Mother Earth’s evolution are withdrawn from and go extinct.

With Expanded Consciousness the Cycle Begins All Over Again

Once this process is complete, which is Will Out-breath, Love In-breath, and Inclusive or Balance, the process begins all over again. With Mother Earth’s expanded consciousness due to this process, she comes up with a plan for her next step of evolution. Her consciousness is expressed through many different parts again that are most distinct. Then she will begin her In-breath again, connecting all the separate parts and their manifestations. Again her consciousness will be greatly expanded; there will be a period of balance or inclusiveness to integrate everything, a new plan created.

Now what that means to us is our consciousness is always expanding, never stagnant.

Where Are We Now?

We are right at the beginning of the In-breath of a matriarch guided period. It is happening much faster as all the separate parts are already manifested, although as we draw these to us, new manifestations relating to connecting, inclusiveness are being realized.

Not Better or Worse

So it’s not that the patriarch or the matriarch is better or worse than the other. It’s just they serve different functions.

December 2012, marks the beginning of being immersed into a matriarch guided era. Mother Earth will shift on her axis once again. The Southern Hemisphere will hold sway much like the Northern Hemisphere did during its time of power during the Patriarch Reign.

Uranus and Neptune Poles Already Shifted

It’s quite possible that we’ll find out Mother Earth is a manifestation, a different part of an even larger consciousness. It’s beginning to look that way, as Uranus and Neptune have already shifted their poles. Still it’s a bit early, as this is still to unfold.

Loy’s Relationship Astrology

There are many different systems of course to bring all these different parts together. Physical travels, the internet, Facebook, Skype are some of the In-breath modes.

Loy’s Relationship Astrology is an In-breath, a feminine method. It actually is an outgrowth of an earlier feminine method we developed, Young’s Regression Therapy. We guided hundreds of people on six different continents into their past lives, wanting to ensure what we found in one location or culture would hold true for all. In our research, we found indeed that many had been members of different races, both genders, even different species. Problems that began way back that had not been solved were still being acted out in this life which now could be addressed. The most benefit though was activating the different parts of our consciousness that belonged to these separate time periods and cultures. Prejudice went by the wayside.

As we kept finding that different religions and cultures were also influenced by different cosmic energies, we began to develop what is now known as Loy’s Relationship Astrology. It is also a feminine method, not a patriarchal astrology, teaching you how to bring together the best of all the zodiac energies within you. Also we guide you how to transform or withdraw from the parts of each sign that do not truly serve or forward your evolution.

We begin first by guiding you to unfold your intuition naturally by embracing first the Moon Goddess’s New Moon and Full Moon Energies. Also, we travel with Mother Earth as she makes her trek around the Sun, each month embracing and developing the different zodiac energies within you. And if that isn’t enough, once you get through this learning curve, we start to bring together the best qualities found in the separate religions, gender and cultures, while sloughing off the dogma. Naturally Loy’s Relationship Astrology includes what we found in our research doing Young’s Past Life Therapy.

And maybe you’ll join me after a year for one of my expeditions to former matriarch civilizations such as Malta. There, I’ll regress you into your past lives, quite an exploration. You’ll want to wait though, until you’ve begun to open your intuition naturally embracing the cosmic energies, then you’ll be ready for the speed at which that occurs as you bring together separate dormant parts into your consciousness rapidly.

CANCER: Characteristics of Cancer

CANCER: Astrology Forecast for Cancer

CANCER: Old Man in the Moon learns new tricks from the Moon Goddess

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 CANCER:

Moon Goddess-

The Old Man-in-the-Moon Learns New Tricks from the Moon Goddess

The Old Man in the Moon is almost finished turning over his reign to the Moon Goddess. During The Old Man in the Moon’s time of supremacy which lasted almost four thousand years, his moon beams stimulated primarily our minds, which directed our accomplishments. We had the opportunity for great insights and visions of how to become stronger, more powerful and better hunters when we gripped his full moon’s illuminations.

Our Feelings Fuel Our Actions

As the swing of the pendulum is moving toward the Moon Goddess’s period of influence, it is our feelings that are coming alive and fueling all our actions. Instead of being directed by the mind’s visions, we respond more by how we feel. If something feels bad, we usually resist and do little or nothing. If it feels good, we spring into action.

Full Moon Experienced Through Outer Senses

During the reign of the Old Man in the Moon, what was thought to be the most important was just the Full Moon; as that’s what we could see and experience through our outer senses. Now the Moon Goddess insists our inner senses are just as important.  

New Moon Happens Through Our Inner Senses

The Moon Goddess also proclaims her New Moon is equally as important as her Full Moon. Just because we cannot see her then doesn’t mean her influence cannot be felt, in fact maybe even more, once we awaken our inner senses.

Moon Goddess Receives the Latest at New Moon Time

At the New Moon time, the Moon Goddess is positioned directly between Mother Earth and the Sun. She is receiving the latest sun rays broadcasting the Sun’s experiences as he makes his trek around the center of the Milky Way. These sun rays are so radiant that the side of the Moon Goddess that is facing him is fully illuminated. In July, the New Moon occurs on July 11, 2010 at 12:45 pm PDT and 3:45 pm EDT. We are still in Cancer.

A New Facet Emerges

Each time the Moon Goddess returns from her encounter with the Sun and is receiving these emissions or sun rays, another facet of her emerges. She may look the same, but she will feel differently, stimulating other aspects of our psyche each month. No wonder the Moon was given a different name every time she appeared. For July her name is Thunder Moon.

Crescent Moon Will Appear Soon

We need to experience her uniqueness to stay abreast of the changes of the cosmos that directly affect us. If you cannot as yet feel her inner pull on your psyche at the New Moon, look to the heavens and in about two to three days, her beautiful crescent moon will appear. Being able to see her may awaken what you received at her dark New Moon time.

Prepare for the New Moon Just Like the Full Moon

Prepare for the New Moon just like you used to do for the Full Moon. This then gives you the opportunity for heightened awareness, increased unfolding of your intuition two times during the month instead of just one.

Full Moon Time 

Now the Moon Goddess is on the other side of Mother Earth, still in direct alignment with Mother Earth and the Sun, but no longer in the middle between the two.

The Full Moon occurs on July 25, 2010 at 6:37 pm, PDT and 9:37 pm, PDT. This will feel quite different than her New Moon though, as the Sun is moving through a new section now, which is Leo.

As our emotions and intuition are more and more stimulated, the influence of the cosmos will become even more important in our lives. If you want to be a natural part of the cosmic flow, become skilled at embracing the Moon Goddess’s moonbeams

CANCER: Characteristics of Cancer

CANCER: Astrology Forecast for Cancer

CANCER: How Mother Earth Evolves and Balances Herself

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Questions? Suggestions? Loy@cox.net

Gemini:

Relationship Tips

One of the most fun ways to get to know people is through astrology. Even Albert Einstein, with all his scientific knowledge, said that he went to astrology when he wanted to know about people. Each Zodiac sign has something profound to teach us about each other.

Gemini Teaches Us About Similarities

Gemini teaches us if we want to know about people, we need to find the similarities between us and other people in our lives. The only real difference between us and other people at an essence level is the qualities that we have activated in us at the present moment and those that are dormant.  Qualities are a neutral way of saying virtues which some people reject, saying that virtues belong to the realm of religion and spirituality. By whatever name, virtues or qualities, that’s how we describe people or their intrinsic worth.

Who Do You Really Admire?

If you admire another person, just for a moment ask yourself, “What quality does that person have that I admire?”  Then look for that same quality within you, no matter how small it is.  And if by chance, it’s dormant, hidden from your view, just know by being around the person you so admire, you’ll begin to mimic this quality before long, which will bring it into view.

Who Do You Just Abhor?

Likewise, if you absolutely abhor something about a person, stop and ask yourself, “What part of my life do I exhibit this negative quality or vice as well?”  You may not see it immediately and may even proclaim, “But I’m nothing like that.”  For example, the person might be a drug addict or an alcoholic and you do not drink or use drugs.  So righteously, you think you are not like that person at all but if you search a little deeper, you’ll find you have an addiction yourself, it’s just not that addiction.  It could be food, or emotional addictions such as out of control anger or jealousy, even mental addictions such as criticism or blaming others.

Why Someone Negative Is In Your Life

It may be hard to get, but this person is in your life to bring to your consciousness your own negativity that you have justified.  It is so easy to see others yet so difficult to look at yourself.  That is why often you need a person really acting out a negative quality in the extreme in your life so you get really upset and frustrated.  To truly deal with this negativity you feel about the other person, you’ll have to look inside to find your own similarity.  When you do admit it, then you can start to change. You can grab hold of your negative behavior, and transform yourself, come into balance in this area of your life.

What About the Other Person?

But what about the other person, what good does it do you when you are in the other person’s presence?  Once you realize this person was a mirror for you to discover this hidden part of yourself that you were in denial about, at least to its extent, you will feel different about the other person. You could even have some gratitude for their mirror role in your life.  Also, you will feel compassion, as it’s going to take some work for you to transform your negative behavior.  Just because you found it, doesn’t mean you have overcome it.  When you do though, your vice will be transformed into a virtue or a positive quality.

From Vice to Virtue

Using the same example of an addictive vice or negative quality, let’s follow that through by transforming a vice to a virtue.  First, being addictive, no matter how you look at it, is being a victim; something out of your control or so you think at the beginning.  Any victim consciousness though is just the beginning stage of a positive quality, imploring you to become your own hero.  Otherwise, you’ll swing to the other extreme and become a villain to yourself or others, causing harm and could even end up killing yourself or others with your addictions.  Victim or villain are both negative qualities, the extremes, but right in the middle is the hero part of you.  And when you call on that part, you transform any negativity into a positive quality.

Transform Your Ugliness into Beauty

Do not let Gemini go by without taking a pen and paper or using your computer to make a list of all the people you truly admire and those you absolutely despise. Beauty is what you are after this astrological year, and this is the Gemini way of transforming any of your ugliness into beauty and awakening the dormant beauty in you that you are not aware of as yet.

GEMINI: Characteristics of Gemini

GEMINI: Flower Full Moon

GEMINI: Astrology Forecast for Gemini

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Questions? Suggestions? Loy@cox.net

 MOON GODDESS:

Pink Moon

April 2010

The April Moon gets its name from one of the earliest widespread flowers of spring, the herb, moss pink according to the Farmer’s Almanac. Other names are Full Sprouting Grass Moon, Planter’s Moon given to it by the Colonial Americans, Peony Moon by the Chinese, Moon When Leaves Return in Scattered Formation by the American Sioux Indian, Seed Moon by the English medieval, and Awakening Moon by the Neo Pagan. By whatever name, this Full Moon phase occurs during spring with its unique characteristics.

Where Mother Earth Goes, So Do We

Mother Earth began her great new adventure, her yearly trek around the Sun on March 20, which was heralded by the Vernal Equinox. It is a whole new experience for Mother Earth as the Sun God is moving through a new band in the sky on his trek around the center of the Milky Way. Spring will still be spring but with a freshness, surprises, the unknown. Wherever Mother Earth goes, so does the Moon or Moon Goddess as she is often referred to and of course us; her human inhabitants.

The Moon Goddess’s Dark Time

Once a month the Moon Goddess gets in between Mother Earth and the Sun God, we can’t see her; it’s her dark period or dark moon. However, at the exact time of the New Moon, the Moon Goddess’s back side to Earth is being illuminated by the Sun God.

The exact time of the Pink New Moon occurs on April 14, 2010 at 5:29 AM PDT, which means the Moon Goddess is receiving the Sun God’s sun ray energy communication about the new band of sky he is traveling through. The approximate distance of the cosmos that the Sun God will travel through in one of Mother Earth’s years is divided into twelve sections, one for each month or astrological sign. On April 14, the Sun God is still traveling through Section One whose astrological name is Aries. So, what does that mean to us? You have another opportunity to become aware of the big picture, your direction for this astrological year.

Ride the Waves into Your Intuition

Two times of the month, Mother Earth, the Moon Goddess and the Sun God are in direct alignment with each other, pulling us into our inner realms. As Mother Earth’s waters cascade on her shores, the water in us spills over into our emotions, giving us the opportunity to ride the waves into our intuition.

Wisdom Beyond Your Mind

Our intuition is where wisdom lies. It that goes beyond our mind and we can just know. Actually, what occurs is there is no separation between each of us and our higher self, we are one in the moment. The rest of the time we are the avatar or the higher self’s surrogate going through experiences in the physical realm expressing ourselves through our physical body, expressing how we feel about these experiences through our emotions, and thinking with our mind. During our sleep, we upload our findings to our higher self and shortly before we awaken, we receive our directions for the next day. Most of the time, we are not conscious of this process, but as our sensitivity increases, our awareness of this procedure amplifies and we begin to live our lives more consciously with more joy.

Increase Your Sensitivity Naturally

To increase your sensitivity naturally, embrace the magic of the Moon Goddess’s seven day full moon cycle.

Three Days Before the Full Moon

On April 25, prepare your body to receive the full illumination of the Moon Goddess. During the patriarchal reign where the emphasis was on developing your strength and power, the emphasis was on self discipline. The feminine energies have come all the way to outer, no longer hidden in anyway in the inner realms.

Beauty is the theme for the entire astrological year, which puts a shift in how we prepare your physical body. The full turn over to the Goddess energy does not occur until December 21, 2012, which means you still need self discipline, but there is a twist. Three days before every full moon, you now use your self discipline to beautify your body. If you have not looked after your body or let it become ugly and out of control, grab hold and make your body beautiful today. By the end of the astrological year, your body could indeed be a reflection of the love inside of you.

Two Days Previous to the Full Moon

On April 26, coach your emotions to receive the full intensity of the Moon Goddess’s moonbeams. Start with your tone of voice, as no matter the words you speak, the truth of how you feel is expressed in your tone of voice. Concentrate today on transcending any ugliness you might feel about yourself or the meaningful people in your life. Likewise, if your voice tone is too seductive, too charming, cunning and clever, become aware of it and shift. Authentic beauty is the quest for today.

One Day Prior to the Full Moon

On April 27, prime your mind to welcome the Moon Goddess’s moonbeams by focusing on inspiration. When you are inspired, you become receptive, not defensive. Remember, no matter what you do this year though, add the word beauty. Inspiration plus beauty will lead you to being creative, right brain thinking.

April 28, 2010 at 5:19 am PDT is when the Moon Goddess’s shaft of light pours down on us , but you can bask in her radiance for a full twenty four hours, twelve hours before lasting through twelve hours afterward. This full moon occurs during the time that the Sun is now moving through the second section of Taurus. That means we will have the opportunity to receive Taurus’ quality of harmony in every cell of our bodies if you are not resistant. Even if you do resist or become defensive, you still receive, maybe just not understand the feelings going on inside of you.

Three days afterward the full moon are days to assimilate and begin to put into action any intuitive knowingness you received. If it is your time to move, to activate another aspect of your astrological chart, you could very well receive just where during this full moon time.

Join me for my Free Full Moon teleconference on Wednesday, April 28, 2010 at 5:00 pm PDT or 8:00 PM ET. Do sign up, even if you are going to listen later. There is a place to ask questions. If you include your astrological sign, I can give you answers that would pertain more to you.

TAURUS: Characteristics of Taurus 

TAURUS:Prominent People who are Taurus

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LEO

Astrology Forecast for 2010

 (General For All Sun Signs)

Energies:  Everyone, not just a Leo has the opportunity to reap the benefits from the energies being transmitted from  July 23 to August 23.  Leo’s energies are Will and Scientific Reasoning. They arrive propelling us into action whether we are conscious or not. The more we partner with these energies, the more we purposefully take charge of our destiny. In this article, we are going to focus on the energy of Will.

Will Energy 

Will is one of the two predominant energies that guide Mother Earth’s progression. Love is the other principal energy. Will and Love lead Mother Earth and her inhabitants by swinging back and forth being the vanguard, until both are equal and balanced.

Will’s Governed Era Coming To a Close

Will has been the current leader for thousands of years, with Love in support. Will produces male dominated civilizations due to its characteristics of strength and power.  This latest patriarch governed era is now coming to a close. 

Love Moving to the Forefront

A big shift is happening now, and Love is moving into the forefront bringing into being another matriarch guided age. Will’s primary quality of outer strength is shifting, moving inside to inner strength. Love is taking the lead.

Shift Still in Progress

The shift has not totally taken place, still in progress.  Anywhere Love has emerged, Will is transforming itself into inner strength. Where Will is still in charge, Will is literally destroying its own manifestations, not all, but the extremes that would keep Love from materializing with its matriarch guided era.

So if you feel bi-polar sometimes, it’s just part of the shift that is occurring. Luckily it takes a shorter time to destroy and dismantle than it does to manifest something new.

Three Times a Year to Receive Will

You have three times during the year, during Aries, Leo and Capricorn to embody Will energy. Aries, Leo and Capricorn’s expression is somewhat different, but each exemplifies the essence of Will.  Aries arrives at the beginning of the astrological year belonging to the Spring Relay Team, Leo is part of the Summer group, and Capricorn arrives with the Winter Solstice announcing Winter.

Scientific Reasoning

Leo personifies the energy of Scientific Reasoning.  As all energies and qualities can be categorized as being a part of either Will or Love, it’s worth noting that Scientific Reasoning falls under Will.  During Will’s patriarch reign which is on its last gasping breath, Scientific Reasoning was instrumental in coming up with the plans for manifesting Will’s intentions. Each astrological year as Will released one of its qualities like strength, Scientific Reasoning would be responsible for coming up with ways for implementation by Mother Earth and her inhabitants

Scientific Reasoning Stimulates the Mind

Scientific Reasoning, of course, stimulates the mind the most. During Will’s reign, the mind led the way while the physical body implemented the plan.  The emotions were more inward, not fully expressed. The mind overrode the emotions mostly.  Sometimes, emotional energy was added as an accompaniment propelling the physical body into action whenever sluggish. Intuition was too fleeting to even be taken seriously by most.   

No Longer is the Mind Leading the Way

With the shift to Love, Scientific Reasoning as it is a part of Will, is also turning inward.  No longer is the mind leading the way, with the emotions acting as just the support to the mind.  Scientific reasoning is being requested to come up with what could be described as heartfelt solutions. You could say the mind is slowly transforming itself, beginning to “Think From The Heart, Love with the Mind.”  The Mind is to solve problems arising from the feelings, especially the hurts that the emotions are expressing. 

Scientific Reasoning Asked to Connect the Separate Parts

Also Scientific Reasoning is being asked now to come up with ways to connect all of Will’s separate parts that are already in manifestation.  And to reinvent, transform inventions that were intended for war to prove who was the most powerful, the strongest and the top dog. The internet is one of these inventions, originally developed for the military, now used for all of us to connect.

Three Times of the Astrological Year for Scientific Reasoning

There are three times during the astrological year that we are inundated with Scientific Reasoning; Leo, Sagittarius and Aquarius.   Each personifies Scientific Reasoning, but as they have distinct functions as members of the Zodiac relay team, they do have their own individual expressions.  Leo belongs to the Summer Relay Team, Sagittarius to the Autumn Group and Aquarius to the Winter cluster.

Aquarius Current Leader of Zodiac

Also, every 2000 – 2500 years, one of the Zodiac signs assumes the leadership role with its own style of management of the other eleven zodiac team members.  Aquarius is the current leader and its style of leadership is as a facilitator.  What that means is although the theme will be scientific reasoning for the next 2000 years, each Zodiac sign is asked to radiate its solutions and methods to implement the quality that is being presented each year.   During 2010/2011, each Zodiac sign is asked to emit its unique solutions for implementing Beauty, although diverse, are all connected as they act as a relay team now since Aquarius started its reign.

Before Aquarius Was Piscean Supremacy

Before Aquarius was the Piscean supremacy, with each of the zodiac signs acting more like gurus when its time came, more authoritarian.  One sign tried to prove it was better than the other.  The Aquarian Age really only assumed full leadership in 1994; we are just at the beginning. But just look at all the scientific inventions that have arrived on the scene starting around 1825-50 when Aquarius began its descent, emitting its energies from the leadership role to Mother Earth. It is easy to see the influence of this Scientific Reasoning energy. 

Love No Longer Illusive

The best is yet to come though, as Scientific Reasoning and its Zodiac Team will ensure that Love will no longer be elusive. We will discover how to “Live a Life of Love.”  That’s the immediate quest ahead of us, which will be accomplished during the matriarch reign which officially begins on the Winter Solstice 2012.   

Inner Beauty Not Seen

For the astrological year 2010/2010, Scientific Reasoning must come up with ways for Beauty indeed to be manifested.  But remember, the mind is no longer leading with its concept of Beauty. Beauty was not absent during the patriarchal reign, but outer beauty took the lead, inner beauty for the most part could not even be seen, much less valued.   It was the packaging, how it looked on the outside. Trophy wives, beautiful women were often bought like art possessions. Their value was as an accompaniment to men.

Authentic Accompanying Beauty

In centuries gone past, it was the men who were painted, made the most handsome, even acted out the parts of women in plays.  Women were not even part of the equation, so even a trophy wife was a big step forward.  Now when you say Beauty as we move into a matriarch guided era, Authentic is accompanying the word Beauty. 

Transform Inner Ugliness

Thus Scientific Reasoning is given the task of helping us to transform any inner ugliness into inner beauty.  Also our outer beauty is asked to be authentic, as a reflection of our inner in the moment.  Now we’re talking about the consciousness field, it’s not that there wasn’t anyone working to improve themselves during the patriarch time but it has exploded since the 70′s.  That’s when women started to burst into the workplace as well. Your thoughts, your feelings and your words are starting to have as high a value as the way you outwardly look.

Leo During Aquarius Era

Leo is a researcher, always testing out new ways to see what works or what does not.  And as Leo’s time occurs during summer, it is supposed to be transparent, for all to see.  It is just as important to show off the experiments that did not work, roads not to take.

It’s said that Thomas Edison, inventor of the light bulb, an Aquarius, was delighted every time one of his experiments did not work, then he could throw out that theory and go to the next.  Aquarius as the facilitator is eclectic, drawing solutions from each of the zodiac signs. 

What is Love?

Living a Life of Love is one of the major goals during the upcoming matriarch vanguard, and as Leo is a pioneer, it has been experimenting since the early 70′s in earnest.   Lots of the experiments with love like marriages, divorces, married again, a three some, being gay, being a lesbian, being bisexual; these are all different expressions, responses to finding answers to the mystery of  “What is Love”? So don’t try to hide or be embarrassed if you are on your six or seventh relationship. What’s important is, did you give up?  If so, get back in the game.

Love is being less and less illusive; many know exactly how it feels now. If it doesn’t feel like Love, it isn’t. No facts or figures can convince you otherwise now. Love is well within your reach, go for it!

Each Astrological Year a Quality is Emitted

Each astrological year, a quality is emitted to us.  Both Will and Love have an abundance of qualities. In fact all qualities fall under one of these two energies.  During Will’s reign, we received qualities such as empowerment, strength, intensity and concentration.

Astrological Year 2010/2011

In 2010/2011, the quality emitted to us and received during Aries was Beauty which is most significant because Beauty is an outer expression of Love. That clearly means the shift is imminent. Love is no longer in the background, being sensed only through our inner senses of feelings. 

We have a full astrological year to fully integrate Beauty into all aspects of our life; physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.  The astrological signs help us each to do just this, as they work together like members of a relay team imparting to us their energies and methods.  Each astrological sign takes the torch for a month, and if you follow their guidance, at the end of the year, you will not only feel beautiful but your words, your actions and your essence will radiate beauty. 

LEO: Characteristics of Leo

LEO:Moon Goddess August Moon

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Cancer

Characteristics of Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

You are our homemaker, the parent, a maintainer that will be there year after year, someone that we can depend on. You have a mission, a destiny to perform which is most important. Actually, you are responsible for the survival of humanity; how about that for a big responsibility?

No wonder you often become a martyr sacrificing yourself, putting your family before your own needs. Cancer is synonymous with family and it is in your home where you express yourself to the fullest. If something is not practical or has no benefit to your family, you have little interest. But you are always on the hunt for the best deal and know just where to look for anything that is needed in the home.

And while the bigger picture may be that we are all one family, your task is to look after your own; those you gave birth to or those that you have taken into your home. We used to think of this sign as the mother sign, but now with single dads, stay-at-home dads, all that is changing. Still, it’s the mothering, nurturing sign of the Zodiac, no matter what your gender is.

Energies: Balance energy expressing itself as fairness and manifestation energy expressing itself as survival.

Balance Energy

You have two energies that are predominant, fully activated in every cell of your body. The first is balance which expresses itself as fairness. You can be very personable, adaptable, easy to get along with, unless you perceive one of your children or those under your care being mistreated, and then emerges the champion of the underdog. You could liken this part of you to a lioness with her cubs; no one is going to hurt your family.

Manifestation Energy

The second energy is manifestation which is really another way of saying survival energy that has gotten itself all the way from spirit to the physical realm. You are only interested in what’s practical in this energy; what’s useful that will directly, in this moment, benefit your family.

Virtues: Organized, practical and fair.

Organized

You pay attention to every detail; nothing gets by you. You are great with keeping the budget because you fully understand that you cannot expend more than you take in, whether it’s food or money.

Practical

If whatever is being touted does not produce direct and immediate benefit, you are not swayed by talk of the future or staying stuck in the past. You want to know if it enables your family to survive right here and now; the present is where you live.

Fair

If it’s not fair, you are not interested, at least for long. And you instill that in your family; live a life of fairness, even when many fall for the trap of “life’s not fair”, which justifies taking what they want. You believe what you sow, you will reap, or for every action there is a reaction and you act accordingly.

Vices: Controlling, over protective and martyr. 

Your vices are really just the learning curve that it takes before arriving at balance or to a virtue. So do not despair, just keep becoming more skillful as you go through each experience.

Controlling

You mean well, but if you are fearful, you will be so controlling, trying to ensure the survival of your family, that you can be stifling.

Martyr

You take on way too much, preferring to do it all yourself instead of delegating. It goes without saying you often create dependency. Usually, it is only after your children grow up that you begin to blossom yourself.

Over Protective

When your children are born, if you are a woman, many times you become so over protective, that you turn your husband into a villain. “Don’t hurt my child”, don’t do this, don’t do that. And all the attention now goes to the children, when before their birth, you probably babied your husband, giving him attention he thought he would get forever.

Vocations

As long as the subject is family, you’re very versatile when it comes to vocations. As fairness is always paramount in your mind, you could be a great family lawyer, mediator or even a Supreme Court Judge like Cancer, Sonia Maria Sotomayor.

You also make a fabulous real estate agent or broker if you specialize in family homes, as you will know the house that is just right for each kind of family. Also, any job that requires great detail is a natural for you; from being a car detailer to an accountant. You definitely will feel more comfortable if you can work from home, and if you cannot, you will decorate your office to be very homey.

Any business that helps single moms or dads, daycare centers for children or for aging parents, will get the best from you. You would adore being a nanny also. Your versatility and creativity, when it comes to your area of expertise, is unbeatable. Since you’ve helped your children with so many crafts and school projects, there is nothing you cannot do when it comes to the home environment. Did I say chef, you’re a natural!

Love Compatibility

Just make sure the person you pick loves the family, whether it’s children, pets or your parents. If not, you’ll feel cheated in life. You’ll feel really comfortable with Libra’s and can talk up a storm with each other and justice is something that is very important to both of you.

For romance, Capricorn is your opposite sign; you herald the beginning of summer and Capricorn proclaims winter. That creates a magnetic pull that can be sexually satisfying and keeps you wanting more. An Aries is also a good match, if you are willing to be adaptable and put down a home wherever your Aries partner will be drawn to next.

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Gemini:

Forecast

(May 22 to June 20, 2010)

(General for All Sun Signs)

You could liken the Zodiac signs as a relay team, working together to achieve the purpose for the astrological year that begins with the Vernal Equinox on March 21, 2010. This is when Mother Earth starts her trek around the Sun, which takes a little over 365 days and will end on March 20, 2011. Mother Earth’s journey is divided into twelve sections, which gives us our months as well as our seasons. These twelve sections were named long ago by ancient astrologers after the Zodiac constellations.

Why Isn’t Each Year the Same?

Mother Earth does this every year, so why isn’t each year the same? That’s because Mother Earth is traveling around the Sun that is going through a new band in the sky, at least to us. It’s not new for the Sun, just part of its regular trek around the center of the Milky Way which takes approximately 230 million years. What that means is the Sun can guide Mother Earth through her new experience; show her how to adapt, to survive.

If we live in the northern hemisphere, we will continue to have our seasons with the Vernal Equinox announcing spring, the Summer Solstice announcing summer, the Autumn Equinox announcing autumn and the Winter Solstice announcing winter. But don’t ever get too comfortable in this sameness, as there is change, unpredictable surprises each and every year.

At least Mother Earth never gets bored, as each and every year the Sun has a totally new adventure for her to experience and to adapt. And for us, as her inhabitants, the only thing that is predictable is change and adaptability becomes one of the most needed qualities for us all to develop for survival.

First Relay Member – Aries

The first relay member and beginning section of the astrological year is named Aries who carries the torch from March 21 to April 22, 2010. Its characteristics are very much in keeping with the beginning of spring; newness, adventure, pioneering. There are so many sprouts or ideas popping up as a result of the new trek around the Sun that sometimes it’s difficult to know which ones to embrace. At the full moon though, during the time of Aries, it becomes clear for those who are intuitive of any Zodiac sign or those pioneers that naturally respond to newness what the predominant energy is of this band of sky that we will be moving through for an entire year.

World Gets Turned Upside Down

For those that have not developed their intuitive nature as yet or who are not the pioneers, the adventurers, often they just feel their world has turned upside down. It is not clear what the message is, even though it’s obvious this year is radically different than last year, even though it’s spring again, it is Aries. Courage is the predominant quality that is needed during Aries.

Taurus is Second Relay Team Member

Aries turns over the torch now to the second section member, Taurus who has its turn for a Zodiac month beginning April 21 through May 21, 2010. Although all twelve members of the Zodiac act as relay team members, May is part of the spring season team. All these new sprouts or ideas that came up during Aries must now be grounded, made safe, comfortable for everyone to be able to experience.

During Taurus, we begin to relax; it’s our second month of experiencing this new energy. It’s not so daunting now, but it’s still powerful energy that we must learn to resonate with, find the safety in it, and become comfortable in our skins with what’s happening in the cosmos. We’ll feel a need to find harmony with this energy so we can connect and integrate it into our lives. We may still not understand just what it is, but we adjust anyway if we are adaptable.

Gemini Takes the Torch as the Third Relay Member

On May 22, Taurus turns over the torch to Gemini, the third member of the spring season relay team. Gemini has the task of communicating in a way that we can understand just what is going on. During Gemini, the message is translated a myriad of ways to every culture, to all consciousnesses not just humans. Understanding is the quality that will be expressed all month long.

For those that resonate to communication spoken with an esoteric flair, with an astrological style, here’s the Gemini translation.

Beauty – Predominant Energy
Beauty, big, bold, colorful, and authentic is the predominant energy of this band of sky that the Sun is moving through. The two predominant energies of this sector of the universe are Will with all its masculine hues of strength and power and love with all its feminine shades of connections.

Beauty is the outer expression of love and Mother Earth will be adapting, making way for this to occur all over her planet. Although Mother Earth is already one of the most beautiful planets overall, there are still pockets of ugliness to be transformed and new beauty to be laid down that is in alignment to this band of sky. Looks like Mother Earth started responding immediately with the eruption of the Iceland volcano right at the beginning of her trek, putting down new land imbued with this new energy.

Rich Bold Colors

The new colors give us a clue also, as they are more the rich bold colors that you would find in countries like Bolivia, Ecuador and Columbia, near the equator moving into the southern hemisphere. That lets us know that Mother Earth is getting closer to another shift on her axis, when our new pole star will be seen from the southern hemisphere; no longer Polaris in the northern hemisphere.

Many may feel the urge to move or at least travel to those countries close to the equator, to get a real sense of the future that is making its way into our present.

Easier Said Than Done

As Mother Earth’s inhabitants, if we are in sync with these energies. We will be embracing and integrating beauty into every aspect of our lives, which is easier said than done. That means transforming any ugliness in our lives, whether in the décor in our homes, in our thinking, our actions, and most important in all our relationships. Don’t forget to start with you though, find everything within you that you can love about you, as you are now, and start transforming the rest into your own authentic beauty.

One Purpose – Connect

This energy of beauty lets us know we are also continuing toward a natural swing of the pendulum when will, being expressed through a patriarch civilization, is on the wane. Picking up momentum is love, which will express itself through a matriarch guided civilization. Don’t worry, love has one purpose, to connect, which eventually takes it to inclusiveness, not separation which is a predominant theme during a patriarch time.

The pendulum’s swing will be fully into the feminine energies as of December 21, 2012. The Mayans accurately predicted that, on the Winter Solstice 2012, the end of the world as we know it, a patriarch dominated civilization will come to an official end. But for those responding to the swing, toward connecting, toward the feminine aspect, it’s just the official date for the rebirth one more time of a matriarchs guided time. And even then, it will not be the same. Look at the level of connectedness we now have on the planet from all those responding to this transfer of power, to this transfer of energy guiding us.

To get more understanding for you personally, be sure and tune in to the Moon Goddess’s Full Moon during Gemini on May 27. Then you may know just how to implement this year’s energy into your life, your profession, and of course those ever so important relationships in your life.

GEMINI: Characteristics of Gemini

GEMINI: Flower Full Moon

GEMINI: Relationship Tips

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Pisces

Relationship Tips

Pisces is all about endings, the perfect time to finish a relationship that is going nowhere, is toxic, does not empower you and there’s just not enough love to keep it going.

Are You Fighting Just to Stay Connected? That’s Not Love!

Lethal relationships happen, even though at the beginning both of you were idealistic and optimistic that it could be a great one. You could have even thought this was the love of your life; heaven forbid.

Yet, it sure didn’t turn out that way. What really happened was you attracted someone that was supposed to teach you to speak up, to become stronger and more powerful. It was never about love, but you didn’t understand that at the time.

Surely you don’t want to give up on your quest for love and settle for a poisonous, over strong relationship. If you do, your body probably will just fill up with an illness or two, or attract an accident to you, to make you more vulnerable again.

Announce Its Demise

You know what I’m talking about; don’t be in denial. The two of you are no longer creating the relationship; it’s dead, even though you haven’t announced its demise.

Maybe sex was hot and great at the beginning, but now you don’t want the other person to touch you. For sure, if that’s been the case for awhile, end it if there’s just the two of you to consider.

It’s not going to get better romantically. Your arguments will escalate just to have a connection, a release that you aren’t getting sexually now.

If Sex is Dead – Opt Out

You can turn this person into a friend, even do business with the person, but if sex is dead, opt out of the romantic relationship.

But you probably need a period of time apart before you create a different kind of relationship with this person. At least give yourself one month before you become intimate in a different way. It does take intimacy, a deep connection, no matter what kind of relationship you have.

Acceptance Generates Friendships

If you are thinking about being friends, you are back to the same problem. Both of you have to create the friendship or it will die, just like your romantic relationship did. Acceptance, flaws and all, is what it takes to generate a friendship. You couldn’t do that in a romantic relationship, but then you were choosing this person as your life partner.

Respect Is the Key for Business Relationships

If you are thinking about doing business with each other, you’re going to have to craft that relationship also. Respect is intimacy of the mind. Let’s make sure you’re not repelled by this person’s thoughts and ideas.

Are You a Coward? Need to Wait for the Next Big Fight?

Be courageous enough not to settle for a life with no or too little love. You can be a coward and just wait till the next relationship drama and then call it quits. At least your mind will be justified.

Wrap It Up with Beauty

If you want to end from the heart though, you’ll need to conclude with beauty. For that you’ll need emotional courage, to speak from the heart while being firm. If you haven’t as yet developed enough emotional courage to talk it out, then write it. Then sit with the person as he/she reads it and touch the person. You could hold their hand; put yours on top or on the side, but touch. No excuses; there’s always a way. You could always end it in a counseling session, with someone to give you courage. Still ask to touch the person as you speak. Touch takes you to your heart, not your dominant side.

“You know we haven’t been close to each other for awhile now. And even though I’m most grateful, appreciative that we gave love a chance with each other. I wish we could have made it, but I really don’t like the person I have become in this relationship. We seemed to have quit creating a romantic relationship with each other, and it died. So I need to bring our romantic relationship to a close now. You probably need the same also. We don’t want to stop here; the quest for love is too precious. Let’s end this in as much beauty as we can. Would you help me? “

Get Back on the Road Again – Love Ahead

And yes, it will bring up abandonment for both of you, but do you really want to stop on this ledge of the love mountain? If you are settling for the connection you get through dramas and combat, wake up. That isn’t love! Get back on the road again that says, “Love Ahead!” You’ll make it!

PISCES: Characteristics of Pisces

PISCES: Astrology Forecast 2010 – 2011

PISCES: Don’t Give Up! Love is On It’s Way

PISCES: Moon Goddess’s Candle Moon 2010

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