The Cancer Goddess Speaks Of Love

As the Cancer Crab turns over to the Cancer Goddess Hen, like any good woman, especially a Goddess, her first utterings are about relationships.

Pure Love

The Cancer Goddess explains when a couple gets together and if they truly loved each other at that time, the relationship can be repaired, years or even lifetimes later. This holds especially true when there was no alternative motive like a pregnancy, money or fame, just a case of love in its purity.

Love Often Puzzling

Love is a feeling and trying to understand why two people fall in love using logic or reasoning is often most puzzling especially in the past.   Love in the preceding patriarch civilization, was a lighter, connecting feeling belonging to the inner realms.

Love’s Connection Could Be Broken

Unfortunately that connection could be submerged or even broken when heavier negative emotions such as blame, jealousy, disillusionment, feelings of being taken advantage of entered into a relationship.  Love then often swung to the opposite side of the pendulum to hate and disgust with the inevitable relationship break up and divorces.

Standing Up For Yourself

As a matter of fact, standing up for yourself was how you found your power and developed your emotional strength.  Most of the time you magnetically drew to yourself your opposite, so you could discover yourself by going through one relationship experience after another. You would exclaim, “I’m not like you, I’m different.” And soon the judgments would follow, which mandated you overthrow the other person for your own self esteem.

Love Now in the Outer Realm

However, now that the patriarch era is winding down, and a matriarch inspired era is curving upward, Love no longer belongs exclusively to the inner realms but now is fully in the outer.  Negative feelings are no longer weightier or stronger, with the power to plunge and break your Love connection.  Now, the pendulum can swing right back to Love, while defying rational understanding.

Different Than Parents

It’s the same with your parents.  In all probability, you were born to parents that were quite different from you.  You spent a lot of your teenage years exclaiming, “We have nothing in common. I’m much different than you. ” It is those feelings that thrust you outward to discover your own unique destiny.

Goddess of Love’s Arrival

But now, with the Goddess of Love’s arrival, it’s time to repair, to discover that lost love they got submerged with heavier negative feelings.  Whether it’s a past romantic relationship, parents, siblings or friends, you owe it to yourself to reclaim this Love, even if they are no longer in the physical realm.  No longer is the goal to show who’s more powerful.

Both Want Love

Come from the viewpoint that you are both good people, and both of you want to be loved and accepted now.   Give yourself a good emotional workout learning how to express these feelings in a way that will be received. One Cancer tip is to start with a tone of voice and body language that expresses Caring, the theme of this entire astrological year.

MOTHER EARTH:

How Mother Earth Evolves and Balances Herself

There are two predominant energies, a duality if you like, that Mother Earth embodies. It’s quite possible they are the same two energies that comprise our solar system, but we’re a long way from confirming that. As Mother Earth’s inhabitants, it’s the same two energies that compromise us also. These two energies are Will and Love.

Will is Our Strength

Will is our strength, our power, which stimulates our mind and our physical bodies. Differences, logic, facts and physical strength all belong to the realm of Will and are expressed through our outer senses. This is our masculine side, the left brain side of each of us, no matter what gender body we inhabit.

Love is Our Sensitivity

Love is our sensitivity, our feelings, our intuition and stimulates our emotional and our spiritual natures. Similarities, connecting, emotional expression and the desire to serve all belong to the realm of Love and are expressed more through our inner senses. This is the feminine aspect, the right brain part of each of us, without regard to the gender body we inhabit.

Mother Earth’s Quest

Mother Earth’s quest is to balance these two energies, Will and Love. Her method is to swing back and forth from one to the other. Will produces patriarch civilizations and Love gives birth to matriarch governed eras.

Out-breath of Will

Here’s how it works. First is an out-breath of Will, which brings into manifestation many distinct, separate parts of Mother Earth’s plan at her level of consciousness and evolution. During Mother Earth’s last out-breath of Will, different races with their own languages, religions and cultures were born in different locations. These manifestations or different aspects were to act as a type of research laboratory, imbuing in them different characteristics. In their separate locations, you could say purity could be observed and preserved, without any outside contamination. The masculine side was activated more, as survival was key, strength and brawn was most important. First the physical body was stimulated more and then the mind. Indeed this Will out-breath period was patriarchal or male dominated and governed.

In-breath of Love

Once Mother Earth tests out all her theories in separate locations with many different species and cultures, then Mother Earth begins her in-breath, swinging to the other side of the pendulum, to Love. While Will’s task was to manifest differences, Love connects through similarities. Now all the different species, religions and cultures are viewed first from the viewpoint of what were the similarities that were discovered that would further aid Mother Earth’s evolution. For example: In every religion no matter where or what language used as a method of expression, they all came to the same conclusion. Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You was found to be a major tenant of each.

Time of Separation Over

The time of separation is over. It’s a time of connecting, of discovering within each what is similar. The in-breath is actually shorter in duration, as what we need to bring together is already manifested. The different cultures can be seen and examined. This period is matriarch governed as the skills of connecting, emotional expression, and telepathy are more needed than strength and power.

Inclusiveness – Balance

Once Mother Earth has brought all these separate parts of her together, then there is a period of inclusiveness, of balance. Neither Will male nor Love female is in the lead, the best of both are brought together. Mother Earth’s consciousness as well as ours is greatly expanded. The worst or the extremes of each that do not forward Mother Earth’s evolution are withdrawn from and go extinct.

With Expanded Consciousness the Cycle Begins All Over Again

Once this process is complete, which is Will Out-breath, Love In-breath, and Inclusive or Balance, the process begins all over again. With Mother Earth’s expanded consciousness due to this process, she comes up with a plan for her next step of evolution. Her consciousness is expressed through many different parts again that are most distinct. Then she will begin her In-breath again, connecting all the separate parts and their manifestations. Again her consciousness will be greatly expanded; there will be a period of balance or inclusiveness to integrate everything, a new plan created.

Now what that means to us is our consciousness is always expanding, never stagnant.

Where Are We Now?

We are right at the beginning of the In-breath of a matriarch guided period. It is happening much faster as all the separate parts are already manifested, although as we draw these to us, new manifestations relating to connecting, inclusiveness are being realized.

Not Better or Worse

So it’s not that the patriarch or the matriarch is better or worse than the other. It’s just they serve different functions.

December 2012, marks the beginning of being immersed into a matriarch guided era. Mother Earth will shift on her axis once again. The Southern Hemisphere will hold sway much like the Northern Hemisphere did during its time of power during the Patriarch Reign.

Uranus and Neptune Poles Already Shifted

It’s quite possible that we’ll find out Mother Earth is a manifestation, a different part of an even larger consciousness. It’s beginning to look that way, as Uranus and Neptune have already shifted their poles. Still it’s a bit early, as this is still to unfold.

Loy’s Relationship Astrology

There are many different systems of course to bring all these different parts together. Physical travels, the internet, Facebook, Skype are some of the In-breath modes.

Loy’s Relationship Astrology is an In-breath, a feminine method. It actually is an outgrowth of an earlier feminine method we developed, Young’s Regression Therapy. We guided hundreds of people on six different continents into their past lives, wanting to ensure what we found in one location or culture would hold true for all. In our research, we found indeed that many had been members of different races, both genders, even different species. Problems that began way back that had not been solved were still being acted out in this life which now could be addressed. The most benefit though was activating the different parts of our consciousness that belonged to these separate time periods and cultures. Prejudice went by the wayside.

As we kept finding that different religions and cultures were also influenced by different cosmic energies, we began to develop what is now known as Loy’s Relationship Astrology. It is also a feminine method, not a patriarchal astrology, teaching you how to bring together the best of all the zodiac energies within you. Also we guide you how to transform or withdraw from the parts of each sign that do not truly serve or forward your evolution.

We begin first by guiding you to unfold your intuition naturally by embracing first the Moon Goddess’s New Moon and Full Moon Energies. Also, we travel with Mother Earth as she makes her trek around the Sun, each month embracing and developing the different zodiac energies within you. And if that isn’t enough, once you get through this learning curve, we start to bring together the best qualities found in the separate religions, gender and cultures, while sloughing off the dogma. Naturally Loy’s Relationship Astrology includes what we found in our research doing Young’s Past Life Therapy.

And maybe you’ll join me after a year for one of my expeditions to former matriarch civilizations such as Malta. There, I’ll regress you into your past lives, quite an exploration. You’ll want to wait though, until you’ve begun to open your intuition naturally embracing the cosmic energies, then you’ll be ready for the speed at which that occurs as you bring together separate dormant parts into your consciousness rapidly.

CANCER:

Moon Goddess-

The Old Man-in-the-Moon Learns New Tricks from the Moon Goddess

The Old Man in the Moon is almost finished turning over his reign to the Moon Goddess. During The Old Man in the Moon’s time of supremacy which lasted almost four thousand years, his moon beams stimulated primarily our minds, which directed our accomplishments. We had the opportunity for great insights and visions of how to become stronger, more powerful and better hunters when we gripped his full moon’s illuminations.

Our Feelings Fuel Our Actions

As the swing of the pendulum is moving toward the Moon Goddess’s period of influence, it is our feelings that are coming alive and fueling all our actions. Instead of being directed by the mind’s visions, we respond more by how we feel. If something feels bad, we usually resist and do little or nothing. If it feels good, we spring into action.

Full Moon Experienced Through Outer Senses

During the reign of the Old Man in the Moon, what was thought to be the most important was just the Full Moon; as that’s what we could see and experience through our outer senses. Now the Moon Goddess insists our inner senses are just as important.

New Moon Happens Through Our Inner Senses

The Moon Goddess also proclaims her New Moon is equally as important as her Full Moon. Just because we cannot see her then doesn’t mean her influence cannot be felt, in fact maybe even more, once we awaken our inner senses.

Moon Goddess Receives the Latest at New Moon Time

At the New Moon time, the Moon Goddess is positioned directly between Mother Earth and the Sun. She is receiving the latest sun rays broadcasting the Sun’s experiences as he makes his trek around the center of the Milky Way. These sun rays are so radiant that the side of the Moon Goddess that is facing him is fully illuminated. In July, the New Moon occurs on July 11, 2010 at 12:45 pm PDT and 3:45 pm EDT. We are still in Cancer.

A New Facet Emerges

Each time the Moon Goddess returns from her encounter with the Sun and is receiving these emissions or sun rays, another facet of her emerges. She may look the same, but she will feel differently, stimulating other aspects of our psyche each month. No wonder the Moon was given a different name every time she appeared. For July her name is Thunder Moon.

Crescent Moon Will Appear Soon

We need to experience her uniqueness to stay abreast of the changes of the cosmos that directly affect us. If you cannot as yet feel her inner pull on your psyche at the New Moon, look to the heavens and in about two to three days, her beautiful crescent moon will appear. Being able to see her may awaken what you received at her dark New Moon time.

Prepare for the New Moon Just Like the Full Moon

Prepare for the New Moon just like you used to do for the Full Moon. This then gives you the opportunity for heightened awareness, increased unfolding of your intuition two times during the month instead of just one.

Full Moon Time

Now the Moon Goddess is on the other side of Mother Earth, still in direct alignment with Mother Earth and the Sun, but no longer in the middle between the two.

The Full Moon occurs on July 25, 2010 at 6:37 pm, PDT and 9:37 pm, PDT. This will feel quite different than her New Moon though, as the Sun is moving through a new section now, which is Leo.

As our emotions and intuition are more and more stimulated, the influence of the cosmos will become even more important in our lives. If you want to be a natural part of the cosmic flow, become skilled at embracing the Moon Goddess’s moonbeams.

Cancer:

Characteristics of Cancer (June 21 to July 22)

You are our homemaker, the parent, a maintainer that will be there year after year, someone that we can depend on. You have a mission, a destiny to perform which is most important. Actually, you are responsible for the survival of humanity; how about that for a big responsibility?

No wonder you often become a martyr sacrificing yourself, putting your family before your own needs. Cancer is synonymous with family and it is in your home where you express yourself to the fullest. If something is not practical or has no benefit to your family, you have little interest. But you are always on the hunt for the best deal and know just where to look for anything that is needed in the home.

And while the bigger picture may be that we are all one family, your task is to look after your own; those you gave birth to or those that you have taken into your home. We used to think of this sign as the mother sign, but now with single dads, stay-at-home dads, all that is changing. Still, it’s the mothering, nurturing sign of the Zodiac, no matter what your gender is.

Energies: Balance energy expressing itself as fairness and manifestation energy expressing itself as survival.

Balance Energy

You have two energies that are predominant, fully activated in every cell of your body. The first is balance which expresses itself as fairness. You can be very personable, adaptable, easy to get along with, unless you perceive one of your children or those under your care being mistreated, and then emerges the champion of the underdog. You could liken this part of you to a lioness with her cubs; no one is going to hurt your family.

Manifestation Energy

The second energy is manifestation which is really another way of saying survival energy that has gotten itself all the way from spirit to the physical realm. You are only interested in what’s practical in this energy; what’s useful that will directly, in this moment, benefit your family.

Virtues: Organized, practical and fair.

Organized

You pay attention to every detail; nothing gets by you. You are great with keeping the budget because you fully understand that you cannot expend more than you take in, whether it’s food or money.

Practical

If whatever is being touted does not produce direct and immediate benefit, you are not swayed by talk of the future or staying stuck in the past. You want to know if it enables your family to survive right here and now; the present is where you live.

Fair

If it’s not fair, you are not interested, at least for long. And you instill that in your family; live a life of fairness, even when many fall for the trap of “life’s not fair”, which justifies taking what they want. You believe what you sow, you will reap, or for every action there is a reaction and you act accordingly.

Vices: Controlling, over protective and martyr.

Your vices are really just the learning curve that it takes before arriving at balance or to a virtue. So do not despair, just keep becoming more skillful as you go through each experience.

Controlling

You mean well, but if you are fearful, you will be so controlling, trying to ensure the survival of your family, that you can be stifling.

Martyr

You take on way too much, preferring to do it all yourself instead of delegating. It goes without saying you often create dependency. Usually, it is only after your children grow up that you begin to blossom yourself.

Over Protective

When your children are born, if you are a woman, many times you become so over protective, that you turn your husband into a villain. “Don’t hurt my child”, don’t do this, don’t do that. And all the attention now goes to the children, when before their birth, you probably babied your husband, giving him attention he thought he would get forever.

Vocations

As long as the subject is family, you’re very versatile when it comes to vocations. As fairness is always paramount in your mind, you could be a great family lawyer, mediator or even a Supreme Court Judge like Cancer, Sonia Maria Sotomayor.

You also make a fabulous real estate agent or broker if you specialize in family homes, as you will know the house that is just right for each kind of family. Also, any job that requires great detail is a natural for you; from being a car detailer to an accountant. You definitely will feel more comfortable if you can work from home, and if you cannot, you will decorate your office to be very homey.

Any business that helps single moms or dads, daycare centers for children or for aging parents, will get the best from you. You would adore being a nanny also. Your versatility and creativity, when it comes to your area of expertise, is unbeatable. Since you’ve helped your children with so many crafts and school projects, there is nothing you cannot do when it comes to the home environment. Did I say chef, you’re a natural!

Love Compatibility

Just make sure the person you pick loves the family, whether it’s children, pets or your parents. If not, you’ll feel cheated in life. You’ll feel really comfortable with Libra’s and can talk up a storm with each other and justice is something that is very important to both of you.

For romance, Capricorn is your opposite sign; you herald the beginning of summer and Capricorn proclaims winter. That creates a magnetic pull that can be sexually satisfying and keeps you wanting more. An Aries is also a good match, if you are willing to be adaptable and put down a home wherever your Aries partner will be drawn to next.

Cancer:

Astrology Forecast for Cancer

Our focus is on Cancer this month from June 22nd through July 22nd. Each sign of the Zodiac has a particular energy each month. We all feel it, but it is felt strongest by those born during that month. Since we all feel it, we can choose to ignore it or consciously embrace it. If we embrace it, we can use that energy to develop the virtues of each sign to our own benefit.

It’s like a twelve month personal improvement program, utilizing this monthly forecast to guide us. If you don’t fully develop all of the positive attributes of Cancer this month, there is always next year when it rolls around again.

Energies of Cancer

Survival energy dominates during Cancer. Whether in your personal life, the workplace, or your community; this is an excellent opportunity to handle your current financial survival .  Watch for opportunities in unexpected areas. A budget is important, keep track of all income and curb expenses.

Balance energy also dominates during Cancer. While making sure that you are financially secure and able to survive, you must also be balanced. If your spending is out of control due to temporary extremes, this is a good time to come back into balance.

You must learn the “balance” between giving and receiving. This is not just confined to finance, but to relationships as well. Do you give more than you receive or take more than you give? Balance is attained when these two actions are equal. Cancer is the perfect time to bring all areas of your life into balance.

Virtues

Cancer is known as the “Parent” sign.  Cancer is also practical, caring, cost-effective and a survivor.

Vices

Cancer tends to be a martyr, self-sacrificing, taking advantage of others and decisions are more often fear based.

Personal

Utilizing the energies during Cancer, this is the best time to take control of your home, your checkbook and your budget.  Use your common sense abilities and get it all organized and in balance.

If your home is unorganized, and you are spending more than you earn, this is the perfect time to take action!  Clean and organize your living space one area at a time. You can even donate unused items which will appeal to your practical side.  Once your living space is free of chaos, you can concentrate on your financial survival.

When you create a budget that works for you and brings your spending into balance with your earnings, stick to it.  It is better to face the problem head on, since it won’t go away by itself.

Intimate Relationships

Don’t let financial issues come between you and your loved ones.  Figure out all of your needs, each contributing their part, and put balance back into your life.  If you make a plan together, no one will feel left out.

You will be amazed at the reduced stress level once the plan goes into action.  Enjoy the renewed intimacy level when you have balance in your budget and in your relationship.

Family

Inspire your partner, your children, your whole family to become financially secure.  By including them in the creation of a plan that will insure your survival as a family, you have shared the responsibilities as well. The children will learn that there is no such thing as a “free lunch”.  They will also feel that their ideas are of value, thus developing a feeling of self worth.

Make sure that the plan has written details that cover every family member’s responsibilities.  This will eliminate any questions once the plan is operational.  Never change the plan without calling a “family meeting”.  This keeps everyone in the “loop” since this is a joint-venture as a family.

Review your plan together, as a family, every couple of months.  Make any necessary adjustment, accepting the things that work and rejecting those that don’t. This will insure the plan’s survival for the long term.

Watch your credit card spending.  Make a plan to pay off the balances, and keep them paid off each month. Living beyond your means is a huge stress on the family.  Use your practical, common sense approach to spending. If you can’t afford it today, chances are you won’t be able to afford it in 30 days when the bill comes due.

Workplace

As an employee, ensure that you are balanced by providing what you are being paid for.  Working overtime without pay is not a balance because giving and receiving is not equal.  Make sure you are doing the best job you can so you can feel good about collecting your paycheck.

As an employer, make sure your company is cost effective in order to survive. Have an open door policy so employees will be encouraged to suggest new approaches to problem areas.

Community

Once you have your personal finances in order and in balance, it is time to give back to the community at a local, state or federal level.  During these most difficult times, your community service is certainly needed in the financial arena. Your attention to detail will be in great demand.