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CAPRICORN: Relationship Tips

June 13th, 2010 · No Comments · Capricorn, General

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Relationship Tips

Surely by now, you’re tired of being in relationships where the person is emotionally unavailable, which just means he hasn’t yet tapped into the love inside of him. Or being in relationships where the person is so emotionally out of control, it’s just too hard, one drama after another. Rational reasoning, logic and facts are for your mind and are really boring for your emotions which hold the secrets to magical, loving relationships. Love, the most sought after of all feelings, is kept hidden inside the chambers of your emotional nature, waiting for someone who understands its language of feelings, intuition and stories to bring it out into the light.

The Quest for Unconditional Love

Let the quest for unconditional love be your star, your vision to learn the language of your emotions. And during Capricorn, beginning with the Winter Solstice, let the shaft of light penetrate even the deepest of love’s chambers, enticing it out one more time, for a time of rebirth.

Rebirth Ceremony

1. Take out a piece of white paper and use a black pen, or use a black, bold font to write with, and then delve deep inside to that darkest part of you that holds the shame, the guilt, memories of times when you went out of control emotionally, said things you wish you could take back, but alas, you couldn’t. You struck someone you care for with your words, maybe even your hand. With great focus, find times when you caused harm to your relationships. Have a good cry, feel your remorse one more time.

2. Then it’s time to become emotionally accountable. Ask yourself, “Have you punished yourself enough yet for what you did? Did you sabotage yourself, have an accident, lose someone you loved?” If the answer is yes, a thousand times more even, acknowledge that. You don’t need anyone else to scold you or make you wrong any longer.

3. If the answer is no, you are still justifying your harmful actions. Decide it’s time to take off your cloak of darkness, your arrogance and make amends to the person. And if that person is now dead, long gone, help someone else. If you need, commit to getting some help, to transform this harmful, dark part of you so you’ll feel you deserve love, happiness. Don’t skip this step; it’s called the dark night of the soul, when you come face to face with the harmful actions of your dark twin. Decide to transform this part of yourself, to bring it out in the light, to continue on your quest for unconditional love.

4. Now take what you’ve written, print it and burn it. The fire symbolizes the flame of the sun. Be proud that you could look that deeply into yourself.

5. With unconditional love, forgive yourself fully. That’s big. Other people will more rapidly forgive you than yourself. Appreciate yourself, even hug yourself.

6. Finally turn on some uplifting music and dance totally free-form.

7. Then dance until you fill yourself up with joy, with bliss, and commit to expressing happiness, smiling at everyone you meet, knowing you’ll be uplifting their hearts also.

Continue on your quest for unconditional love. It’s what you’re here for and it’s within your reach. When your strength turns inward in support and your love is in the lead, you know you’re making it.


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